The Muse Journal
Thoughts on cosmetic dentistry, facial aesthetics, and the art of natural enhancement from Dr. Darian Anderson and Sarah Garces, NP-C.
First-Time Injectables: Everything You Need to Know Before Your First Appointment
If you've been thinking about Botox or filler for the first time, you're not alone!! Some of my favorite patients are the ones who've been thinking about it for months (or YEARS) before finally booking.
I get it. Trying anything injectable for the first time feels like a big step. There's so much information online, half of it is conflicting, and it's hard to know what's actually true vs what's just marketing.
So I wanted to write the guide I wish every first-time patient had before their first appointment. Honest, clear, no fluff 💗
start with WHY
Before I talk about treatments or what to expect, the most important thing for any first-time patient to think about is: what's actually bothering you?
Not what you think you "should" treat. Not what an Instagram filter shows. Not what your friend got. What's bothering YOU when you look in the mirror?
The answer might be:
"My forehead lines are starting to show even when I'm not making expressions"
"My lips have always felt thin and I want a little more definition"
"I look tired all the time even when I'm rested"
"My face has changed since I had a baby and I don't feel like myself anymore"
"I just want to look refreshed, but I don't know what I need"
ALL of those are valid reasons to come in. There's no "right" reason and no "too small" reason. The point is to know your why so we can build a plan that actually addresses it.
what's the difference between Botox and filler?
This is one of the most common first-time questions, so let's get it out of the way.
Botox (and similar neurotoxins like Dysport) temporarily relax the muscles that cause expression lines. Think forehead lines, frown lines between your brows, crow's feet around your eyes. Botox is preventative AND corrective. It softens existing lines and prevents new ones from deepening. Results show up gradually over 5-7 days and last 3-4 months.
Filler adds volume back to areas that have lost it (or never had as much as you wanted). Think cheeks, lips, chin, under-eyes, jawline. Filler is made of hyaluronic acid (a substance your body already produces naturally), and it can be dissolved if you don't love the results. Results are immediate and last 9-18 months depending on the area.
A LOT of first-time patients think they need one when they actually need the other (or both!). That's exactly what your consultation is for.
what to expect at your first consultation
Your first visit at Muse will look like this:
1. We talk first. Before any decisions are made, we sit down and I ask what's been on your mind, what you've tried before, what you're hoping for, and what you're nervous about. There are no wrong answers!!
2. I do a full facial assessment. I look at your face from multiple angles, study your proportions, and assess where treatment would actually create harmony. Sometimes the answer is the area you came in for. Sometimes it's somewhere you didn't expect.
3. We build a real plan together. I walk you through exactly what I'd recommend, why, what it costs, and what the realistic timeline looks like. You'll know the full picture before any product touches your skin.
4. You decide what feels right. You might want to do everything we discussed at that visit. You might want to start with one area and see how it feels. You might want to think about it and come back. ALL of those are completely fine 💫
There is zero pressure to commit during the consultation. I'd genuinely rather you leave thinking about it than rush into a decision you're not ready for.
what does it actually cost?
Honestly, this is hard to answer in a blog post because injectable pricing depends on so many factors: which products we use, how much you actually need (which is usually less than you think!), whether you're doing one area or facial balancing across multiple areas, and your overall treatment plan.
What I can tell you generally:
Wrinkle Relaxer is usually priced per unit, and most first-time patients only need a small number of units to address their main concerns.
Filler at Muse is priced per area, not per syringe like most med spas. This means you're paying for the result we're building together (cheeks, lips, chin, jawline, etc.) rather than guessing how many syringes you "need." Most first-time patients are great candidates for starting with a single area to see how it feels (you do NOT need to do everything at once, no matter what TikTok says).
Facial balancing sessions are priced based on what's included in your specific plan.
Pricing in the Del Mar and San Diego market for boutique aesthetic practices like ours is in line with what you'd expect for premium injectable work performed by an experienced provider using high-quality products and ultrasound guidance. Significantly cheaper pricing should make you ask questions about who's injecting you and what product they're using.
At Muse, we'll always give you a real, customized quote at your consultation before any product touches your skin. Zero surprises.
what to do (and not do) before your appointment
A few simple things to make your appointment go more smoothly:
Do:
Eat a real meal beforehand (low blood sugar makes you more likely to feel lightheaded)
Stay hydrated the day before and day of
Come with clean skin (no makeup is ideal but not required)
Bring a list of any medications and supplements you take
Avoid for 24-48 hours before:
Alcohol (increases bruising)
Aspirin, ibuprofen, fish oil (blood thinners that increase bruising)
Strenuous workouts the morning of (raises blood pressure)
Aggressive facials, peels, or waxing on areas being treated
Some bruising can still happen no matter what you do (especially with filler near the lips and under eyes). It's normal and almost always resolves within a few days.
what does it actually feel like?
This is the question first-time patients are usually most nervous about, so let's be real about it.
Botox uses an extremely fine needle and feels like a quick pinch in each spot. Most people say it's much less than they expected. We can ice the area beforehand if you're nervous. The whole appointment usually takes 10-15 minutes.
Filler can feel slightly more intense because we're using more product, but every filler I use contains lidocaine (a numbing agent) so it gets more comfortable as we go. Lips are the most sensitive area, but we use topical numbing cream beforehand to take the edge off. Most patients describe it as "weird pressure" more than pain.
The whole experience is way more chill than most people imagine going in 💗
the recovery (or lack of it)
For most injectable treatments, there's basically no real downtime. You can drive home, go back to work, see friends. The most common side effects are:
Mild swelling for 1-3 days, especially with filler
Possible bruising at injection sites (usually small)
Temporary tenderness when touched
A "lumpy" feeling with filler in the first few days as it settles
You might want to plan a quiet evening after lip filler if you want to avoid being seen with extra swelling. But for forehead Botox or cheek filler? You can absolutely go straight back to your day.
I always recommend booking your first appointment at least 2 weeks before any major event (wedding, big work meeting, photo shoot) so everything has time to settle perfectly.
red flags when choosing your first injector
Since this is your first time, choosing the right person matters SO much. Here are red flags that should make you pause:
They push you to get more than you came in for. A good injector recommends what's appropriate. A bad one upsells.
They don't ask about your medical history. Skipping this isn't just careless, it's unsafe.
They quote pricing dramatically below market. Sometimes that's a great deal. More often it means they're using counterfeit product or cutting corners on safety.
They can't or won't show you their work. Every legit injector has before-and-afters of their own patients.
They make you feel rushed. Your first appointment should never feel like a transaction.
They don't have a medical background. Some states allow non-medical "injectors" with minimal training. Always make sure you're being treated by an MD, NP, PA, or RN with proper training and supervision.
what makes Muse different for first-time patients
I've been doing this for a long time and I genuinely love working with first-time patients. There's something so special about being someone's introduction to injectables. It's a moment of trust I don't take lightly 💗
A few things first-timers usually appreciate at Muse:
No pressure, ever. Consultations are complimentary. You can walk out without booking. I genuinely won't push you.
Ultrasound-guided filler for added safety, especially valuable for first-timers
Per-area filler pricing instead of per-syringe, so you're paying for the result we're building, not the volume of product
Conservative philosophy. I will almost always recommend less product than you might expect. You can always add more later. You can't easily take it back.
A team that gets it. We'll walk you through what to expect, prep your skin, and make sure you're comfortable from the moment you arrive.
what to do next
If you're ready to talk through your options or just curious whether injectables are right for you, the easiest first step is booking a complimentary consultation. We'll talk through your goals, do a full facial assessment, and build a plan with no obligation.
Book a consultation at themuseaesthetics.com.
Whatever you decide, I'm rooting for you! Trying injectables for the first time is a big deal, and you deserve to do it with someone who actually cares about your goals 💗
xx, Sarah Garces, NP-C Muse Aesthetics & Dentistry, Del Mar
Disclaimer:Individual pricing will be determined during your consultation based on your specific treatment plan. All injectable treatments carry inherent risks that will be discussed at your consultation. This content is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Please consult with a licensed aesthetic provider to discuss your specific situation and treatment options.

